
Growing up, there was a remarkable place my family use to go called Imagination Station Science Museum, of Wilson, North Carolina. This was a museum of play, where kids could run and play, explore and experience. My sisters and I loved it! I remember asking if we could visit monthly. There was one area I remember the most. It was a race you could participate in. More specifically, it was a race against other animals, such as a bear, a cheetah or turtle. Anyone familiar with these animals can guess which one a child could win against (Air Jordans or not!). But a contributing factor to this is the gait and stride of the animal you would be racing.
How can we really understand someone if we only put on their shoes? How can we claim to understand someone if we put on their shoes yet maintain our own gait? We each perceive and experience the world at a different pace, seeing things at a different point in time, at own own gait both physically and mentally.
Imagine trying to understand someone missing a limb is going through if you don't try to travel through life as they do. You can climb into a wheelchair and wheel yourself around. I know, I did it with my grandmother's wheelchair. But I couldn't begin to understand how it felt to be in that wheelchair for extended periods of time. For life to have to slow down for you to get there in time. Can you truly understand or pass judgement without first understanding how someone walks? What speed, what size stride? We can try shoes on shoes all day and walk in our walk. But no one can tell a story like the other person's shoes, walk or stride.
This applies in all aspects of life. You cannot begin to understand someone's plight, someone's loss or whatever someone is experiencing without understand first how they got there, how they are moving and where they want to go. We can't begin to help until we know where it hurts. And we can begin to pick someone up until we know how they have fallen. If we keep all this in mind, we can all walk side-by-side, stride-for-stride, never missing a beat. With that, unity can occur. And every mile would be walked together.
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